Our families have been close friends for just about 10 years and we even feel comfortable for our dads and myself to call each other (for fun), the word "Malaka" which is Greek for "Wa*ker" ha ha ha, yep that's how cool we are with each other.
Doukeni has been my closest friend in Greece because we are just so cool together and have amazing taste in music, anime, films, actors etc and I just love easy it is for me to be myself every year when I join her everyday on the beach where her, Nikos (her bro), Giannis (her dad) and Aggelos (her bf since 2009) are all working on the watersports (Dad and I pitch in on helping the other guests at the hotel with rules, prices and explaining things to those who are hard of hearing). She is one of my non-related big sisters.
Anyway, I was made aware a month ago that Doukeni and Aggelos were finally coming over to England on the 11th February for a week after we've been going to Greece for years. It felt really awesome that this time instead of us going all the way to see others that this time they were coming to us for a whole new experience and adventure. Mum and Dad refused to tell us what they had in-store for us all cause it was a surprise for me and Becca too.
Wed 11th February:
After a long day's work, I headed straight for home cause Doukeni and Aggelos had arrived at 2.30pm, so as I got into my house and was embraced by them with a long over-due hug, my first thought was "Am I in the wrong country?" ha ha. I was so pleased to see my friends again and this time they were in our country instead of Greece, it was weird at the same time since you know we usually go to see them and this time they made the effort and afforded the money to come to us. After everybody had arrived home, instead of cooking, I suggested we could all go to Sussex Barn since I've had many memories there during my college years with Lewis, George, James, Sam, Peace etc and I think this was the first time I had taken my family with me to an amazing BBQ themed restaurant. We all had such a wonderful evening (I didn't take a picture sadly, but there's plenty more to come) and in the night I even got to see David (my old mate from the night out for Kathy and Alex's 22nd Birthday Party) working and I even saw Jack and Amy as well from the same night and had a quick catch-up as well as asking me on how the date went.
I had to sleep on the 3 seat sofa whilst everyone had beds (because they don't love me... I'm kidding, I'm being the honorable one and doing the right thing).
Thurs 12th February:
| Hello, is that the emergency services... then which country am I speaking to? |
We even got them to sing Happy Birthday for Doukeni
(though her birthday's not till December). We just wanted to see this ha ha.
(though her birthday's not till December). We just wanted to see this ha ha.
Fri 13th February:
Sunday's first attraction was a first timer for us all, The London Eye (we had bought the tickets yesterday). Despite the day being cloudy, I was still keen to venture onto the gigantic Ferris Wheel with the others (except for Mum and Dad who chose not to come on). The panoramic view was eye-raising and I felt alive being this tall up above London and see out across the capital though it's not like I was on The Shard but I did see that too from here (too bad the sky wasn't clear). Everybody in our dome were going crazy with their cameras like me and taking pictures from different angles, I even offered to take a cute young couples picture for them (aren't I nice?!)
After a good long 30 mins and touching back down to the ground, we took a quick look round the gift shop (I got a cool 3D London Eye Bookmark and Doukeni bought a Telephone Box Piggy bank). Oh and Becca, Me and Doukeni
turned one of our pennies into a flat special design coin thanks to
this wheel machine (I felt like a pirate whilst turning the wheel/
helm).
On the tube, we had a surprising duo performing some music on the train
with a violin and guitar (they even did "Ring Of Fire by Johnny Cash").
Our main highlights for today were the Natural History Museum and the Science Museum in "South Kensington".
I was being a little know it all in the group like explaining that the Velociraptors in Jurassic Park are heavily exaggerated and aren't the real dinosaurs.
I was surprised and extremely happy to see a huge (I don't know if the model's accurate) Tyrannosaurus Rex animatronic in the room and it even twitched it's head and roared a little (but not as terrifying as you'd expect, we can't have it scaring children too badly).
I even noticed whilst reading all the facts on the boards and seeing the sculptures and skeletons, that they included a fact about The Land Before Time (mentioning Dinosaurs that had been used in films) and all my knowledge and memories came flooding back into my memory including the scenes and music. I had a few tears in my eyes since the film's quite emotional for me and it also made me realise that these lizards once existed on our planet and aren't with us anymore and as badly as I wish I could time-travel (logically impossibly sadly) back to the "Jurassic" or "Cretaceous" periods to gaze at these creatures in their prime before their demise by the meteors...
| A Vampire Bambii? |
| That's one big pair of Antlers! They'd make a good coat hanger, I joke |
| I wonder if those bikes were suppied by Halfords or Evans Cycles? ha ha |
| Very pleased to have come home and found this little f***er... (possibly another False Widow Spider) *ugh* |
We all went to "St. James's Park" to look for a small pub for a late lunch. We found the Adam & Eve Pub round the corner from the Underground and had food there. It wasn't bad though the old lady there was, if I'm honest "rude" since we admitted our friends from Greece were with us and she commented on "how awful if must be to live there?!" Ain't that lovely? Disrespecting your customers... So after a group photo it was time to leave and say goodbye to Maria on the train when we got off at "Westminster", grabbed our bags and got the loooong train back to Horsham (18 stops which took 1hour25mins *argh*).
We weren't gonna cook anything once we got in, so a Pizza was in order and all falling asleep later on.
The picture I used at the top is where I took the photo at the pub with Maria.
| I enjoyed this which I bought at The Eye (so did Aggelos) |
Saturday was a well deserved R&R day for everybody.
Only real thing was, I got to show Doukeni and Aggelos a special Anime film that I've always loved by Hayao Miyazaki - Spirited Away. I'll write up a review on it sometime this year since it was mentioned in my New Years Resolutions on writing up on more things on my shelf.
As for Sunday, it was disappointing but I was doing my best to be understanding for the right reasons. I was expecting to go on my 2nd date with Jemma but after seeing a Saturday night status on having an awesome night out, I had a feeling that Sunday wasn't happening since she'd be tired and maybe a little ill ha ha. Honestly, I'm not happy with not being made aware of things or being kept in the dark about planned events no longer happening, but seeing as it was her and I had an assumption already, it was much easier to understand. But I knew that this wasn't being "stood up" or ignored and luckily I remembered that her birthday was at the end of the month and she wanted me to go with her and her friends on a night out.
And on Monday lunchtime, I got the Facebook invite to her event and it'll be in her hometown. So I'm hoping to drive up (it'll be an adventure) and join her and the others for a night out. I hope to stay there or in a hotel cause I can't drink and drive but at least this special event means I get to celebrate with her and it'll be my second meeting and I cannot wait until next weekend!
So for that Sunday, everybody (except for Becca who was working sadly) went to show Doukeni and Aggelos round Horsham town, the park, the county mall etc. I wasn't in the mood in the morning so after some thinking and urging myself to get out there after not training for almost 2 weeks, I went out for a long jog round the park alone. I managed to do 9.70km in 1hr3mins and 36 seconds. It's not better than my last jog where Richard and I did just under 10km in 1hr6mins but it was something and with all this distance, I'm getting better and better whilst preparing for my life's biggest challenge yet, The Tough Mudder.The Park was really peaceful today with a clear blue sky whilst jogging around the outer-area of the park through the path and trees. I had Adam Young's work - Owl City, Port Blue and Sky Sailing all to keep me company during my hour exercise and on a day like that, what could have been better? His work always comforts me and sometimes makes things much better because his words help shine the sun on my cloudy days and help make my head and heart feel better (I gotta start writing this down on my future review on his work and history). So it was a productive Sunday in the end instead of moping around.
Mon 16th & Tues 17th February:
I returned to work on Monday and I think everybody including Becca went to The Royal Observatory at the Herstmonceux Castle Estate. It sounded cool but I wasn't really missing out and work was more important.
As for their last day in England, on Tuesday, everybody (except for Me and Becca) went to Brighton for an adventure along the sea-side on a glorious sunny day. They told me all about it when we all got home and how they really enjoyed the culture, seeing eccentric people, walking along the pier (which they've never been on before).
Anyway, Doukeni and Aggelos had bought me a couple things from Brighton to say thank you for having them and because they are awesome too! I was given an Adventure Time Mug, a personalised Chocolate Bar with my name on it and an amazing purple special design Iron Man t-shirt. Becca showed them all the funny show Impractical Jokers (that show is embarrassingly hilarious!) and once they packed away everything, we all spent a lot of time in the evening just watching a couple shows like Friends (even they knew what that show was). And as I began writing this up last night, it was time to say goodnight and see you next time to my amazing friends, I was so honoured to have them with us for a great week of fun. Ha I told Doukeni, "since we've been coming to you for 10 years, looks like you have another 9 years to follow up on" ha ha (I'm kidding) but it'll be brilliant the next time they return and hopefully with more company like Giannis and Tereza (his gf) or her brothers Nikos (My Greek bro) and Apostolis. We had to mention to her that, we won't be returning this year because like every year, the price goes up and up even though we are given discount for being frequent returners plus this year, we all wanted our own little adventures with our own friends (something new for a change). I wanna go to Florida with Kurt and whoever else can make it from our group, Mum and Dad might go back to Corfu from when they went for a week and Becca and I looked after the kitties. I wonder what Becca wants to dot for this year.
I hope for us all to keep on returning (even if it does seem boring to others), it's a sensational experience full of highlights and seeing all the staff again are what attract us to keep on returning. Hopefully in a year or two, plus the new hotel just opened up and it's super expensive at the moment. I think around June/ August, I may write up a big blog post on the highlights to Oceania Club and my treasured memories with the staff and Giannis's family (do any of you have close connections with friends you've made on holiday?)
So for the Wednesday that's passed, my friends are now back home and I am relieved that I get my bed back and also to have shared another memory with everybody whilst doing something new and with the right company.
Now, I look forward to when I next see Jemma and get back into training for The Tough Mudder (I'd better write up a post for that soon and share the donation link for the charity) and just keep on smiling each day and take it all in stride like I have been doing since January and I've felt so much better as a person and I think I come across in that way too, for the better.


